I have a friend whose stepfather freaked out when I once pointed at their pooch. I was telling the dog to sit, and the pointing came naturally. I never really understood why he didn't want me to point, and honestly it was an instant reflex, but his reaction stuck with me all these years.
Now I'm self-conscious about raising my finger – do you do it, too?
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I don't think I do... but I do use hand gestures for her to understand. It isn't always verbal commands.
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